Connect with others who understand.

  • Learn from expert-reviewed resources
  • Real advice from people who’ve been there
  • People who understand what you’re going through
Sign Up Log In
Powered By
Real members of MyAutismTeam have posted questions and answers that support our community guidelines, and should not be taken as medical advice. Looking for the latest medically reviewed content by doctors and experts? Visit our resource section.
A MyAutismTeam Member asked a question 💭

We take him cooked and uncooked food to Care Home. Do couple of activities. Wondering how to pull him out of withdrawal from making sounds or more effort in his work or activities

12 hours ago
 · 
Reactions
A MyAutismTeam Member

I don't want to be negative or cause you any worry, but I have had some difficult experiences with a group home that cared for my son. At one point, they shut him in his room and blocked the door so he couldn't get out. Six months later, another caregiver went home and left three helpless adults in soiled diapers, with all food and liquids locked up.

Please be mindful of who is caring for him, and remember that because he is nonverbal, he can't tell you what he is experiencing or what is happening to him. I made the mistake for many years of believing that my son was safe. Eventually, I had to get a lawyer involved.

That being said, I would also like to suggest taking your child for car rides. I still take my son for a car ride and through a nearby car wash. Then we go to a nearby Starbucks drive-through, where I get him a latte and a slice of banana walnut bread. It has become a routine that he loves, and he gets a big smile on his face when I go to his home to pick him up. He knows exactly what is going to happen.

He is now well cared for and happy in his new group home, and I am very grateful for that.

4 hours ago
A MyAutismTeam Member

@A MyAutismTeam Member thanks means alot xxxx take care and have a great day xxxxx

9 hours ago
A MyAutismTeam Member

He's blessed to have you for his mom! 😊❤️ It sounds like he really enjoys seeing you when you come to visit him!

10 hours ago
MyAutismTeam

It sounds like you care deeply about Jas and want to do everything possible to support him. That already says a lot! The fact that you're asking this question means you're already doing more than enough in terms of love and commitment.

Encouraging communication and engagement in nonverbal individuals with autism can take Show Full Answer

It sounds like you care deeply about Jas and want to do everything possible to support him. That already says a lot! The fact that you're asking this question means you're already doing more than enough in terms of love and commitment.

Encouraging communication and engagement in nonverbal individuals with autism can take many forms. Here are some approaches other parents have found helpful:

- Sign language – Many families find this reduces frustration and helps their child express needs without the pressure of speaking
- AAC devices or apps – Tablets with communication apps like Proloquo2Go have helped some nonverbal individuals find their voice in a whole new way
- Picture Exchange Communication System (PECS) – Using picture cards to communicate wants and needs can be a great stepping stone
- Music – Singing favorite songs and leaving out words for Jas to fill in can gently encourage sound-making in a fun, low-pressure way
- Autism-specific apps and flashcards – These can spark engagement and learning through play A MyAutismTeam member shared a lovely reminder: "Hope NEVER fades. The sooner you learn to go at your child's pace and not some cookie-cutter 'expected' milestone pace and relax, the better."

Every child with autism is unique, so what works for one may not work for another. It's worth speaking with Jas's care team about trialling some of these approaches in a structured way.

12 hours ago

Related Questions

View All
A MyAutismTeam Member asked a question 💭

A MyAutismTeam Member asked a question 💭

A MyAutismTeam Member asked a question 💭

Continue with Facebook
Continue with Google
By joining, you accept our Terms of Use, and acknowledge our collection, sharing, and use of your data in accordance with our Health Data and Privacy policies.
Already a member? Log In