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Telford, TN

I need some advice, My daughter is twelve and still can not read or spell. she has trouble naming letters as well. Now, she can be stubborn about doing stuff and when she wants to work she does great but if she is not in the mood she wont do anything, that is most of the time. I plan on home schooling her this next school year. Emma is on Busphar, It does help in the mood issues and confrontations. My question is this anyone have/had the same problems and found something that worked? also, I am… read more

May 8, 2013
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Members rallied around a parent seeking help for their 12-year-old daughter who struggles with reading, offering a range of structured... Read more

Members rallied around a parent seeking help for their 12-year-old daughter who struggles with reading, offering a range of structured literacy programs including Wilson, Barton, Starfall, Reading Eggs, and the book 'Teach Your Child to Read in 100 Easy Lessons.' Several members shared that their own children learned best through motivation and special interests like computer games, or by recognizing whole word shapes rather than traditional phonics, with one noting their child sees words as pictures. A recurring theme was creating motivating rewards systems, using functional reading in daily choices, and leaning into what uniquely works for each child rather than forcing methods that don't fit their learning style.

A MyAutismTeam Member

Keith loved playing computer games, so reading computer games worked well for him! He broke a few keyboards but hell, the champ learned to read better then some of his non-spectrum classmates! hooah!

May 8, 2013
A MyAutismTeam Member

Have you tried an awards system with her? I use flash cards and my 8 yr old son's black board and we go the alphabets and 3 letter words. He sits through an hour with a break in between, he doesn't understand the awards system but it's worked on my tween girls when they were his age (although they aren't autistic), we modified it for our son to have a "choice" of any of his favorite things like a basketball, blarring music, television show after he satisfactorily if not better completes his home "learning session." He can now identify all the letters of the alphabets and his name. Good luck to you!

May 25, 2013
A MyAutismTeam Member

reading eggs is a great learn to read website, fun educational, repetitious, corrective...Also try making reading functional. Write down choices and have her point to them to pick, start with two and work up...start with offers that do not look at all like "cookie" versus "sun"..

May 12, 2013
A MyAutismTeam Member

@A MyAutismTeam Member I believe my daughter sees pictures as well phonics hasnt worked yet on her.. She seems ro recognize word shapes as well. I was glad to hear someone else that sees this like I do.

May 10, 2013 (edited)
A MyAutismTeam Member

Have you tried the Wilson program with her. It works wonders with many children. My middle son finally learned to read with it. It is very repetitive and routine based which is why it worked so well with my son.

May 9, 2013

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