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He lets the drink spill out of his mouth onto himself or his highchair tray, but then sometimes will panic when it is all over him. I don't understand why he does this. I have had some people say "it is a normal 2 year old thing," but my kids never did it and I have I had some people say it is a "sensory thing."

May 13, 2015
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Members reassured a grandmother whose two-year-old grandson spits out drinks that this behavior can stem from sensory exploration,... Read more

Members reassured a grandmother whose two-year-old grandson spits out drinks that this behavior can stem from sensory exploration, attention-seeking, or developmental delays in swallowing, and is not uncommon even in neurotypical children. Several members shared practical strategies including offering smaller amounts of liquid at a time, using sippy cups or straw cups for oral stimming, calmly redirecting without harsh reactions, and removing the drink temporarily if spitting persists while praising proper drinking. A recurring theme was the value of speech and occupational therapy for both communication delays and feeding challenges, with encouragement to stay patient as many children outgrow the behavior naturally over time.

A MyAutismTeam Member

My son did this for a short period of time. We would continue to tell him it's not okay to spit the water out. He caught on. Let it run its course and see if it goes away.

May 14, 2015
A MyAutismTeam Member

Get him one of those Playtex cups with the straw on it. It's a soft silicone and they can stim with that. Andy loved to just lick his. It stopped the spitting of liquids.

May 13, 2015
A MyAutismTeam Member

My son still does it and he's eight.
seems to feel good to him

May 13, 2015
A MyAutismTeam Member

Thank you for your input and advice. It is so frustrating to see him do that and then he freaks out about getting sticky. If I say no or stop to him too sternly he panics. He is very sensitive to tone of voice.

May 13, 2015
A MyAutismTeam Member

Our occupational therapist helps with eating but our speech therapist doesn't

May 15, 2015

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