New Jersey, Pensylvania, In Michigan they attend school till age 26.

Stay away from the South!

I thought California was accepting? I know where I live in Reston, Virginia is very accepting.

Alabama or Georgia

We live in NC and I while it's a great place to live, I can't say the public schools have been that accommodating. We've been homeschooling our ASD son since 5th grade. Before that the teachers were great but in general I didn't feel they truly understood autism. I have heard New Jersey and New York state and areas in the northeast have better resources in their public schools. One bright spot here is the TEACCH center in Chapel Hill, NC. If you live near it, you can get a lot of resources.