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Kailua-Kona, HI
August 12, 2023
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Members shared their experiences with DIR Floortime, a developmental therapy focused on building social and emotional connections rather than... Read more

Members shared their experiences with DIR Floortime, a developmental therapy focused on building social and emotional connections rather than isolated skills, with one parent describing it as transformative for their anxious, mostly nonverbal son who now engages joyfully with far more eye contact and fewer meltdowns. Several members emphasized that Floortime meets children wherever they are on the spectrum, respecting their communication and unique needs, though one parent noted that while the approach offered valuable insights early on, they eventually added other therapies to sustain progress as their child matured. A recurring theme was the importance of understanding each child's individual differences, staying flexible with treatment approaches, and ensuring therapies remain playful and respectful rather than overly demanding.

A MyAutismTeam Member

Actually since Floortime is a developmental approach, it doesn’t matter where your child is on the spectrum, because you meet them wherever they are. My son has extreme anxiety and is afraid of almost everything that is unfamiliar or unexpected/unpredictable. He is afraid of other people and kids other than me, my husband, and my mom. When we first started with Floortime my son did not make eye contact with us, he enjoyed toys more than us, and he had a lot of meltdowns and head banging. Floortime has been the best thing for my son and our family. Now my son loves to engage with us and looks right at us (of course not all the time) but when he’s engaged with us, he is really engaged and enjoys it so much with tons of eye contact, laughing, smiling, and wanting more. We are more interesting to him than toys now, which I thought would never happen. Through Floortime I’ve learned so much and it has helped us understand my son better, which has helped with the meltdowns and head banging. Of course, he still has anxiety that is really hard for him, but Floortime helps us though that too. Luke also has OCD tendencies, things have to be a certain way or he wants us to do certain things a certain way, otherwise he loses it and through Floortime we’ve learned to respect his needs and his communication when he tells us through sounds, gestures, signs, or even emotions when he gets really upset. I’m really thankful for Floortime and I hope it can help others too.

August 13, 2023
A MyAutismTeam Member

No worries! A lot of people don’t know about this awesome approach. DIR is the Developmental, Individual-differences, and Relationship-based model with objectives to build healthy foundations for social, emotional, and intellectual capacities rather than focusing exclusively on skills and isolated behaviors. It was founded by Dr. Stanley Greenspan. Here’s two websites with more detailed info:

https://stanleygreenspan.com/what-is-floortime/

https://www.icdl.com/dir

August 12, 2023
A MyAutismTeam Member

@A MyAutismTeam Member every child is different, that’s true. In any of these therapies, it will depend on the parents to carefully manage it, make sure the child is not getting pushed too hard, and that they are being appropriately challenged according to their abilities.

August 16, 2023
A MyAutismTeam Member

It’s all about social emotional health and relationship and connection. 😊

August 13, 2023
A MyAutismTeam Member

I'm going to sound stupid for saying this, but what is that? I've honestly never heard of it lol

August 12, 2023

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