Keep going and hopefully it will work itself out. Talk to an occupational therapist for suggestions if possible. It might take several months to potty train.

My son is non verbal i have visual pictures in my bathroom like they do at therapy. I have a small potty chair for him I think im going to try it next an see how he likes that.

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Preparation and EnvironmentAssess sensory needs: Adjust bright lights, loud flushing sounds, or cold toilet seats that may cause distress.Provide stability: Use a smaller insert seat and a sturdy footstool so the child's feet rest flat, helping relax the pelvic muscles.Use visual supports: Create picture schedules outlining each step (pull pants down, sit, go, wipe, wash hands) and hang them in the bathroom.Switch to underwear: Transition away from diapers or pull-ups during the day so the child can clearly feel the sensation of being wet.

Establishing the Routine
Ditch open-ended questions: Avoid asking "Do you need to go?" Instead, use direct statements and visual cues like pointing to a "time for potty" card.Set a timer: Take the child to the bathroom on consistent time intervals (such as every 30 to 60 minutes) based on when they usually go.Keep sits short: Limit toilet sitting to 2 to 5 minutes. Let the child look at a special book or hold a favorite toy reserved only for potty time.Keep reactions neutral: Do not scold or show frustration during accidents. Calmly help them change and return to the routine.

Reinforcement and ResourcesReward
all effort: Offer immediate praise, a favorite snack, or a preferred activity the second they sit or produce anything in the toilet.Consult formal toolkits: Review step-by-step frameworks provided by organizations like the Autism Speaks Toilet Training Guide or specialized advice from Raising Children Network.If you'd like, let me know:Your child's age and current communication level (verbal or non-verbal)Any specific sensory triggers or fears they have (like the flush or sitting still)I can help tailor a specific visual schedule or troubleshooting plan for you.9 sitesSeven toilet training tips that help nonverbal kids with autismSome strategies that may help include: * **Using clear and simple pictures or visual prompts** * **Using simple and direct languag...Autism SpeaksParent's Guide to Toilet Training Children with AutismUse a smaller potty seat and/or provide a footstool. If your child will not sit on the toilet, work on sitting before beginning a ...Autism SpeaksToilet training for autistic children: signs, strategies & challengesToilet training for autistic children: signs, strategies and challenges * Your autistic child might show signs of being ready for ...Raising Child