I would def seek legal before anything else. They can usually point u in the right direction as well. Also, if think about moving def ask attorney. I'd hate to see husband try to nab u for kidnapping just to spite u. That would only make things worse. Idk about ur state, but nj is 50/50 in marriage unless a prenup exists. But again, a lawyer would have the answers. Wish u best of luck with this!!

Do you have support from your local church. I know some of the christian churches I have attended they are more than willing to help. I will pray for you.

Get in touch with local churches. Call until you have a meeting of minds with someone. The Red Cross and Salvation Army are sometimes good with these things but it's according to how strong your local chapters are. I'm sure that you have looked online for help. But the places I've mentioned may have a program that will fit your needs. I hope. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I understand how exhausting, what you are going through, can be. Take care of yourself. You are no good to anyone if you don't do that!

I live in Frederick, md. It is a bit cheaper here and commutable. Have you contacted the ARC? They may have ideas. DDA also has emergency funds for families in crisis and you sound like you are in crisis. I hurt for you and wish I had more suggestions.

Word of advise: DO NOT TAKE OFF WITH YOUR CHILD! Women's Shelters usually have legal advisors there to help you along the way...

Try this: http://www.houseofruth.org... They have a Kidspace, they are working with the children five days a week and we are able to closely monitor their progress. Thorough assessments of each child’s developmental levels drive an individualized plan for that child. The children’s progress is monitored daily by their teacher and discussed frequently with the child’s parents. The progress of the more severely distressed or developmentally delayed children is discussed by their teachers and therapists on at least a weekly basis.

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Some shelters will even come and pick you up in certain situations. They did for my sister years ago. I will pray for you.