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Son loves to be oiled and pampered but toes he is not doing well. Taking long time to heal both his big toe nails as both came off

April 27
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My son loves being in the water, so bath time is a blast for him. He enjoys brushing his teeth, but goes through toothbrushes quickly as he likes to chew on them. He has been a bit fussy with hair combing and nail trimming, but talking to him and giving him lots of hugs afterward seem to help.

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Autism self-care focuses on managing sensory needs, reducing burnout, and nurturing emotional well-being through personalized routines. Essential strategies include sensory regulation (stimming, quiet spaces), establishing predictable daily structures, engaging in special interests, setting boundaries, and practicing self-compassion to prevent autistic burnout.

Key Areas of Autistic Self-Care
Sensory Management: Proactively manage sensory inputs to prevent meltdowns. This includes sensory "detoxes," using noise-canceling headphones, dimming lights, or seeking deep pressure/movement.
Routine and Structure: Use visual schedules, checklists, or apps to manage daily tasks, which helps reduce executive functioning strain.
Recovery from Burnout: When overwhelmed, reduce demands, prioritize restful activities, and engage in special interests to recharge.
Emotional and Physical Health: Journaling, practicing mindfulness (if helpful), gentle exercise, and ensuring consistent sleep routines are crucial.
Self-Advocacy: Communicating needs to family, friends, or employers to create a more supportive environment.

Practical Self-Care Tips
Build a "Sensory Toolkit": Include items like fidget toys, weighted blankets, noise-canceling headphones, or comfortable clothing.
Structured Downtime: Schedule downtime to decompress after social interactions or work/school.
Embrace Special Interests: Dedicate time to hobbies that bring joy and mental rejuvenation.
Set Boundaries: It is okay to say no to social events or tasks that cause excessive stress.

https://www.autismcentral.nhs.uk/guidance/perso...

Personal care | Autism Central
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April 27
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It sounds like personal care is a mixed bag β€” lovely that your son enjoys being oiled and pampered, that's a great sensory win! 🌟 But losing both big toenails and slow healing does need some attention.

Toenail issues can sometimes be linked to sensory sensitivities in autism, such as resistance to nail trimming, which can Show Full Answer

It sounds like personal care is a mixed bag β€” lovely that your son enjoys being oiled and pampered, that's a great sensory win! 🌟 But losing both big toenails and slow healing does need some attention.

Toenail issues can sometimes be linked to sensory sensitivities in autism, such as resistance to nail trimming, which can lead to ingrown nails or injury over time.

Here are some things worth considering:

- See a podiatrist β€” they specialize in foot care and can assess why the nails came off and why healing is slow
- Keep the area clean and covered to prevent infection while healing
- Check footwear β€” tight shoes can cause toenail trauma, and some autistic individuals may not communicate foot pain clearly
- Watch for signs of infection β€” redness, swelling, warmth, or discharge means a doctor visit is needed soon

Since your son may not always express pain or discomfort verbally, it's worth checking his feet regularly as part of his pampering routine β€” that way it feels familiar and safe rather than stressful.

A GP or podiatrist visit is really the best next step here to make sure everything heals properly. πŸ’™

April 27

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