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How do you help your child with their anxiety while you have anxiety? My child's anxiety is causing my anxiety and I don't know what to do

June 18, 2025
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Members deeply connected over managing their own generalized anxiety while supporting anxious autistic children, with many acknowledging how... Read more

Members deeply connected over managing their own generalized anxiety while supporting anxious autistic children, with many acknowledging how their child's distress directly triggers their own. Several members shared practical strategies that help both parent and child, including deep breathing exercises, fidget tools, chewing gum, maintaining consistent routines, medication when needed, self-help books, and reaching out to resources like ECHO Autism and the Autism Speaks forum. A recurring theme was the extra challenge of unknowns and routine disruptions, the importance of self-care, and the understanding that parents with anxiety can empathize more deeply with their child's struggles even when it feels overwhelming.

A MyAutismTeam Member

I am listening to a book called Building a Non-Anxious Life I picked up from the library by John Delony. I think it is a really good book. It isn't specifically geared toward autism but I think it is really good.

June 18, 2025
A MyAutismTeam Member

Getting your symptoms under control will help limit the child's. To help avoid the falling domino, ECHO Autism has a directory for finding clinicians trained in best practices for treating autistic individuals, Organizations like the National Autistic Society and Autism Speaks offer resources, support, and directories of qualified professionals. The library has a good selection on self-help books that are suggestions for anxiety. I found some at a church thrift store. If you need to vent if your counselor is not available please feel free to use this platform or the forum at Autism speaks since expressing my thoughts has helped with my treatment.

June 18, 2025
A MyAutismTeam Member

Yes, routine is what helps. Since my son has had this anxiety now it's messing up the routine which is causing my anxiety.

June 19, 2025
A MyAutismTeam Member

I find that through helping others, it helps keep my anxiety at bay. Like they say, it's always easier to help others than it is to help oneself. This is so true for me. Maybe that's why I work the absurd amount of hours I do! I keep busy and I'm so focused on guiding others that I don't have time to worry or to let my anxiety get the best of me. Don't get me wrong, I still have my moments! They're just less often these days πŸ™‚

June 18, 2025
A MyAutismTeam Member

I can relate to the anxiety part of this, I was told I have an anxiety disorder with depression, medicine and deep breathing exercises do wonders, best of luck and hang in there.

June 18, 2025

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