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Autistic 15 Yr Old Seeks To Control Her 13 Year Old Sister And Effectively Psychologically Bullies Her. It Is So Hard To Watch. Help?
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One cannot 'Control' another person. One can 'Guide', 'Help' another person through a tough time
As for the one being 'Bullied', they have to figure out a civilized way of dealing/handling the… read more

After Our Son Uses The Toilet, He Plays In The Soiled Water. How Do We Get Him To Stop?
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He's fully potty trained for 3 years and only started doing this 4 months ago.

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With my kids we talk about how we don’t touch in the toilet.. It takes a lot to keep (me) from freaking out! But the less I freak out and the more I talk calmly about how we don’t touch in the toilet… read more

Gelastic Seizures?
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Just back from the neurologist.. My sons laughing may be a sign of seizure, gelastic seizure, anyone ASD kids have this diagnosis? How do you help them before we are fully diagnosed? Any info on it would be great, thank you

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My son is 13 and the uncontrolled laughing has been worse lately. About for 3 months. I first noticed it the year he was diagnosed when he was 10. I just researched and read about galestic seizures… read more

How Do You Help Other Family Members Understand Their Loved Ones Disability And Accept It?
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Another wrinkle is when the person on the spectrum doesn't accept their diagnosis. When they are adults, and request that family not be told the details, it tends to put some distance and tension in… read more

Son Is 7 With Autism Occasionally Grabs Other Kids Can't Sit Still.
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My son is 7 not potty trained yet. Me and my wife live in California. A treacher suggested we send my son to a place out of state in Virginia to help him more. This would just crush me. I think I would try medication and other therapy here before I even attempted that. What is everyone's opinion on what to do? Son says only a handful of words. Thanks all in advance.

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I would definitely start therapies as soon as possible. Have you been working with your local board of developmental disabilities? It may be called something different in Cali. They are a great… read more

Should I Tell The Coach?
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My son has been playing soccer since he was 3yo (now 13yo). Soccer is his one and only interest and he has managed to make it to a high level of play. With that being said, every single coach labels him as being cocky/undisciplined/arrogant despite his level of play. He doesn't treat anybody bad but tends to give more feedback than necessary. The thing is, being on the spectrum, he struggles with that portion of the game. I'm heartbroken because his current coach constantly bullies him and calls… read more

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I would also notify the district if the coach continues to bully and single him out. or notify the association the coach is through. That is discrimination and not okay. That is not a way to teach or… read more

How To Stop A Meltdown Once It Has Started
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if my son is playing a game on the copmuter or ps2 and he loses he has a complete meltdown, and i try to calm himm down but talking to him only makes him madder and holding him makes it worse so then my dad(who doesnt understand autism) comes to the bedroom(which has no door on it for me to be able to shut,and tells me to just spank his behind. But I dont want to teach him to hit or slap any more than he does already, anyone got advice, i sure could use it

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Just let it run it's course and try to "ignore" it, making sure he can't hurt himself by matter-of-factly removing objects that could cause him harm.

Diapers Issue
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How Do I Stop Diaper Picking?
My daughter sticking her hands down the back of his diaper and picking them and leaving cotton everywhere. I have recently caught her eating it

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We ended up using the Little Keeper Sleeper with our son until he was fully out of diapers. A snug fit is key. We went up a size trying to get ahead of a growth spurt, and he was able to pull his… read more

Has Anybody Heard Of Cindy Hebbard: Freedom For Autism?
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So, I saw this add for a program for our kids that claims 100% positive results. Apparently, it is tailored to each individual child to take specific steps to improve their behavior, diets, social skills, etc. without the use of ABA. I had a one on one call with the founder last week and she claims to have a daughter on the spectrum that has learned to thrive through her program and her website touts other testimonials of people who have seen social, emotional, and verbal improvements in their… read more

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I'm coming back to this after having seen the positive reviews left by certain users, and also the comments from someone claiming to be Cindy. As an autist myself, I have questions:

Why do none of… read more

[STATEMENT] Bullying, Bullies, Bully...or...'Being Picked On'?
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Bullying, Bullies, Bully. All 'Stigmas', 'Labels' that do not get to the 'Root' of the issue. There was a time when there was such a thing as being 'Picked On' by someone that was seeking a 'Friendship' that had any-other way of expressing it
Our ASD Individuals Starve for 'Attention' and either become the 'Victim' or the 'Bully' to get it
I have seen an Increase in this issue, and it always comes at the end of the Winter Season.
I believe that it's time to take each child individually for a… read more

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J did this self negative talk they told us she was depressed? Not sure if thats the answer for you or if your son takes meds but that turned it right around! She would come in and ask is today an atf… read more