Help my ex wont give my son his meds on the weekends or vacation time he has him. so my son goes days without it and comes home more upset and violent with his sisters and me. I have try to talk to his father about making sure that he gets it but got told that he can give it to himself which the doctor says no because of where he is on the spectrum. I have tired talking to DFCS where I live and got told they cant do anything because I have the child most of the time. What else can I do because… read more
It is a form of negligence called medical negligence, I believe, for a parent to not give meds. I’m shocked that DCFS won’t do anything! CPS? My ex is the same but my child is only on meds when she is… read more
I am a psychologist in Santiago, Chile. The family has been given this resource to address extreme tantrums and frustration tolerance issues. The center seems very expensive. Their own testimonials give positive reviews. I an wondering whether anyone has gone through their behavioral training for individuals and families and what your experience was like?
I agree that what happens before the behavior and how it is handled play a part in maintaining the behaviors.
My son just turned 3 he has been having behavor problems for the past 6 months or so. He hits and kicks, and head butts. He mostly only does it to me. We had a behavioral Theropist come out, she suggested I just walk away. My son can run. He would never just let me walk away. I've tried spanking it seems to upset him but, not enough to stop what he is doing. Anyone have any suggestions I might try. What worked for you?
If you are having an issue with a child hitting, why would you hit? If he is being aggressive and you are being agressive how would he see it is wrong. Its frutrating yes, but spanking is the exact… read more
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I wanted to add that even celebrities like Dan Aykroyd (whose interest in ghosts and police led to helping to write Ghostbusters and Coneheads), and Daryl Hannah (Splash, Blade Runner, Steel… read more
My grandson is getting in trouble at school because he’s pushing or biting other kids. We’ve had many conversations, but he always gets easily frustrated and reacts this way. How do we help him?
Im so sorry to hear this. You must feel stressed about it. I agree with what’s been said. The behaviours are showing overwhelm or distress. This means staff need to be proactive. Sometimes those… read more
Quick synopsis: my son is 14 and has been using aggression since about age 8. He probably has 2-3 instances per month at school/ABA, and maybe 3-4 instances per year at home. It's usually a single hit/slap and then maybe restraint until he calms, which is usually within 10-15 minutes
This morning, while home sick with a cold, my son needed bathroom assistance. My wife was helping him since I was in a work meeting. I heard screams and ran upstairs to help and my son was pulling my wife's hair,… read more
Things are going to fast at school for him.
He needs a 'Cool-Down' time of 5 to 15 minutes between events so he can collect himself before going to the next task.
Thanks she has a neurologist and PCP.I am currently trying to find a psychiatrist for her that takes her Medicaid insurance and accepts new clients.It is alot of behavioral problems and obsessive… read more
My son was not diagnosed with ASD until he was 11, he is now almost 13. Prior to that he was diagnosed with ADHD and ODD. After a reevaluation this summer it was determined he has Asperger's and ADHD. He has always had difficulty with aggression, but some of the more obvious ASD behaviors have increased since starting puberty. (More perseveration, vocal stimming, tantrums, threats, entering others personal space). The school has refused to acknowledge that his behaviors are due to Autism… read more
Thanks everyone! We submitted a request today for an independent educational evaluation so he can receive an Functional Behavioral Assessment from an impartial provider. The school isn't… read more
I have a REALLY big problem with my autistic son being mean or even violent to his younger brother. I've tried time-out, but he won't stay in it. He's too strong for me to restrain him in time-out. What should I do?
Okay, I wasn't sure about the ages. Godspeed on this issue!
I need advice on how to avoid the power struggle with my 16 yr. old. I have tried all I can think of and need to know what has worked for others with teens. My stress level is out of control and my bp is too high, please help!
It's always harder for the parents, as your a safe target for aggression. I've learned working with adults that each and every one of our kiddos are master manipulators in their own way, and they've… read more